Ok, #queenreason. Your ask box isn’t nearly big enough to fit a proper response to this, so here:
Dude. You are posting hate discounting so many peoples’ existence and struggles in the tags they track to find support and likeminded people. This is being unbelievably ugly to people. This is triggering and dangerous and incredibly insensitive. You are hurting people. I’m not being hostile (seriously, “trans people are so hostile”????), I’m trying to let you know that your behaviour is harmful to other humans in an effort to maybe prevent it from happening again.
It is clear that you do not understand non-binary identities. You’re so not alone there. Maybe do some research instead of just saying they don’t exist? OF COURSE it’s absolutely fine to be a “butch woman” or an “effeminate man”. Be any kind of person you want to be. Just because you don’t fit into the stereotypical version of male or female does not mean you shouldn’t identify as male or female. Absolutely. However, you shouldn’t identify as male or female if you DON’T IDENTIFY AS MALE OR FEMALE.
If you DO acknowledge that binary transgender people exist, you acknowledge that it is possible to say either “I am a man” or “I am a woman” and it be a total lie, so you don’t IDENTIFY as that. Sometimes both are lies. It is not “narcissistic” or “self-obsessed” to not want to feel social or physical dysphoria everywhere you turn.
Good for you for never experiencing these things. Other people do, and they are real. Also. “Gender doesn’t mean anything and doesn’t matter”… oh god how I wish that were true. The world in its current state does not agree. Different genders are perceived and treated with worlds of difference.
I seriously just can’t wrap my head around some of the things you are saying, and I need to stop because I am honestly about to break down. I hope I hope I hope you’re not as closed-minded as you are coming across.